Orgone And Love

If a dog on a leash does not run off, no one will regard him as a loyal companion on the basis of this fact alone. No reasonable individual will speak of love if a man sleeps with a defenseless woman who is virtually chained hand and feet. No one, unless he is a real scoundrel, will be proud of a woman's love gained by financial support or by power. No decent person will accept love that is not given voluntarily. The compulsory morality of marital obligations and familial authority is a morality of cowards and impotent people who are afraid of life, people who are incapable of experiencing, through the power of natural love, what they try to produce for themselves with the help of marital laws and the police. — Wilhelm Reich

Socrates said "The only true knowledge consists in knowing that you know nothing". At some point one has to recognize that one needs help. Sadly if one has found work success and it has brought you some contentment and financial gifts than one's pleasure and sexual satisfaction will be distracted, limited, and success stops the awareness of knowing you know nothing. and the complete need to uncover how Orgone streaming reveals love will be contemptuously lost. 

My dog, Buffalo a Chesapeake Bay Retriever not only had an undying purpose but he could smell himself to pleasure. Being on a leash was a small price for bionic smell. He was always staying in contact and leaning on you to keep the connections; to keep his Orgone streaming. He had goals, value, and purpose. He was inspiring in his passions. Humans, have lost the dogs ease with streaming pleasure, in our pursuit to inhibit emotion.

 When primary drives are blocked or confused than chaos becomes troublesome and hard to explain. Primary drives unify, purpose, self perception,  structure and focus. 

Superimposition with another releases Orgone and clarifies the imbalances in the organism. Being that this paradigm is blocked by armored culture than understanding the need for loves Orgone release is not understood. We all are born with the need to be warm, held, safe, and to be lovingly whole. Through out life those needs often can be confused with being in love. Love is not words but the meat of words. Existence is being.

 

How to experience love when puberty has been denied? When leaving home puberty is finally experienced and its appearance causes adult children confusion. Love has not been wholly, bodily experienced, like being lost without a compass. Missing love and set adrift without the knowledge to transition to other feelings often adult children will choose addictive sexual diversions. Though comparatively low in comparison to adults, youth suicide worldwide is there leading cause of death. .

Not being in touch with streaming, emotion makes love relationships difficult. Having children multiplies obstacles in finding time for intimacy. Women's and men's responsibility for potential children determines there purpose, there goals: they need to be survival evaluators. Paying bills, the safety of there children becomes paramount. Lost in work, and survival goals parents lose focus on connection, contact, and true sexual release. Survival awareness can be motivating but if you leave out emotion you have our culture: angry and unsatisfied. If you only have goals than you have a culturally supported addiction. Uneasiness will be your reminder that true satisfaction is missing. 

After the honeymoon is over the sexual excitement dulls, women become distant and men become bored, and misunderstanding ensues. Men's and Women's sexual economy has become impoverished. The need for sexual intimacy, and orgasm release will cause a substitute release, addiction. Love a distant memory buried under cultural ignorance. 

Culturally supported expression of true sexual pleasure is not a Judeo Christian goal.

The families tacit disapproval of teenage sex in a typical American culture will be socially and orgonomically confusing.  Ultimately caught between a rock and a hard place and held down by the parents ignorance, puberty is hidden. Repression is particularly true when parents unknowingly are addicting righteousness. Downplaying the need for therapy is a typical sign that dysfunction is prevalent. The family is depressed except for the parents who are allowed to release some Orgone by being authoritarian and sexual.

Unlocking is the work of recovering from neglect, from shutting down because of abuse, of fear. When the 1000 piece puzzle is yourself how do you have a clue what being in love feels like. If I am blocking being angry about the past then I am not fully alive. Unknowingly I will not be spontaneously present because I fear the expression of a repressed memory that
was hidden for safety and is now holding  back aliveness. Love is connection that is tangible, agreement of excitement: love is Orgone streaming filling the curves of the body and the pleasure is knowable.

 

Words as Dr. Reich said can not describe the living movements and the journey to experience feeling aliveness. Love will only happen by letting go of  armor, letting go of control. The living therapeutic process has its own timing that accompanies the years of day to day releases. In touch with the movement of Orgone flow, and years of discovering emotional detours than you recognize when true contact exists. Love is mutual, dramatic archetype filling of masculine and feminine expression; immediately recognized by each person as fully alive and like the suddenness of lightening, Orgone expression seeks release, completion. Floating, knowing that heaven, is the shared pulsing pump that explodes like all stars, into the unimaginable universe. 

Every seemingly arbitrary destructive action is a reaction of the organism to the frustration of a gratification of a vital need, especially of a sexual need.

WILHELM REICH, The Function of the Orgasm